Hello, I’m CONFIDENce

Discover Your Heart Purpose When You Build Strong Confidence

An authentic system to help you build priceless, life-long confidence that will give you purpose and ignite a desire for living.

I’m happy….

You want to wake up happy.

You’ve tried positives vibes and keeping busy.

You’re starting to feel like you’ll never amount to anything.

Like maybe the way things are right now, maybe you really were destined for your life to be meaningless.

I know the feeling; in fact, it wasn’t long ago that I was trying to sleep my pain away. I was numb and lifeless dragging through each day.

I tried being positive and moving on. I tried new relationships that ended up shattering my heart to pieces.

I felt angry and helpless to change my life. I began to believe I would never have a purpose. I would never be anything more than invisible.

Honestly, I knew needed things to change. I needed to know what my life was for, I need a reason to keep living for my child and MYSELF!

I want purpose

Give me a reason not to sleep to escape my life.


I need drive

Make it easy because my brain is not alwasy cooperative. 

I need genuine

I need to see the results of my effort. Make it real.

The overwhelming feels were heavy but I decided that I was going to give it another shot. I wasn’t just going to lay down and die.

I knew my life was meant to be great but sleep it away wasn’t getting me anywhere.

I knew that trying to avoid my reality wasn’t helping.                

So, I got out of bed and cried out to God to save me from MYSELF! I slid down the wall in a puddle of tears realizing I hated myself. I didn’t know who I was and I was looking for validation from every direction to fulfill the dark empty void in my heart. Bad relationships, promiscuity, and drinking to numb the pain. They all kept me in self-loathing.

I made myself a priority and have never looked back. I wake up looking forward to living the day. I love deeply like I’ve never been hurt and laugh until my belly hurts and tears run hot filled with joy.

Finally, I have confidence in who I am. I can look in the mirror and smile at the woman staring back at me. Sleep is to fuel my body for the LIFE I love to live now.

I’m here to tell you, there’s an easier way.

Maybe you have that i’m-so-over-it feeling…

I ‘m tired of being tired and I hate myself because of it.

I get that to the core. The total exhaustion is real. Choosing Confidence reignites purpose and desire where the flame to live has died out. Being afraid to put yourself out there is out-the-door when you finally have the confidence you need to trust God loves you and love you

I don’t believe my life has a purpose.

I completely understand that feeling. You’ll grow to learn the amazing purpose your life has and gain remarkable appreciation for your life and purposes God has set before you. Your story is being written. You’ll find the confidence to believe in it.

I don’t have time for anything else.

With 7 children I am on the ain’t-got-time-for-this train with you. Thing is you are valuable. Choosing confidence isn’t just investing in you, you’re investing in the life of your children and others around you as well. Which gives your life even more purpose.


Choosing confidence


Our new P.R.O.S.P.E.R Method + Choosing Confidence Building study

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New P.R.O.S.P.E.R Study Method

The Choosing Confidence Creation uses our new P.R.O.S.P.E.R study method that’s specially designed to help you use small habits that lead to godly habits. You don’t need to change your whole world in one day. Learn to build a life that you love, one brick at a time. Genuine transformation is the goal.

4 Weekly Video Sessions

You aren’t alone in your journey. Like you, I felt like I was the only one out there struggling, but Arabah Joy provides deep dive video lessons. Each week has a video that compliments and encourages you into better understanding and deeper discoveries. Solid application will become habit.

Digital Study Workbook

Choosing Confidence is set up with your success in mind. The interactive design provides you with a powerful to fully cultivate your time with God while teaching you to journey through the scriptures for yourself. Which is a priceless lifelong skill to have.

This means you’re getting…

30 days of carefully crafted study sheets that lead you to understand and accept confidence and find your God given purpose. You’ll interact with the New P.R.O.S.P.E.R Study method plus the Choosing Confidence deep dive study. 



The Shocking Truth About Insecurity

In week one you’ll visit the life of Jeroboam and witness how his divine purpose was ruined by the fear and insecurity in his life.

Week One will teach you:

  • To understand the incredible dangers of insecurity and how it sends you into despair and destruction.
  • To pinpoint the root causes of insecurity.
  • To become aware and recognize your own vulnerabilities to insecurity.
  • To learn the greatest weapon to overcoming insecurity.


3 Types of Insecurity

Here will use Moses life to unveil the 3 most common types of insecurity.

Week Two will teach you:

  • How to understand the common types of insecurity.
  • How following God’s instruction helped Moses move past his insecurities.
  • How to take a look at insecurity through God’s eyes.
  • How to understand that insecurity is not your defining factor.
  • How to recognize insecurity for what it is and call it by name.


Owning Your Calling and Purpose

Taking a look at the Life of Saul will reveal to you the amazing roles and purposes God has for you. Together we’ll commit not to allow insecurity to dictate or stand in the way of the divine callings on our lives.

Week Three will teach you:

  • To grow in appreciation for God’s purpose for your life.
  • To finally accept and verbalize freely the calling He has given you.
  • Be challenged to fully embrace and confidently follow where the Lord leads you.
  • Look at yourself in the mirror and say no to insecurity. Know who you are!


Becoming a Confident Person

Set your confidence in motion with a look at Joshua, a man of courage and faith. Learn the characteristics and habitual skills of a confident person.

Week Four will teach you:

  • How to choose confidence
  • How to identify the necessary changes you need to make to walk in God’s purposes
  • To know the building blocks for developing a strong-lasting confidence, both internal and external.
Turn your hopelessness into trust and lasting assurance. Don’t miss out!

Testimonials & Featured Clients

“Day One was amazing! I’ve never looked at scripture like this before (using this technique). It’s like someone took the blinders off and I’m seeing God’s Word in a whole new light!” Kim

“For the first time I understand how people actually enjoy reading the Bible. It finally feels alive.” Lindsey

“Arabah Joy, I joined this Bible study because of its goal of transformation over information. Thank you for the well-thought-out process to help us delve deeper into what the Bible says to us.” Martha

“Confidence has been something that was killing me from the inside out. Your Bible study is a path to real genuine change in my life. You have set it up so that it’s easy for me to navigate and get the most rather than fumbling with complication. Thank you. Real Confidence has changed my life. Jamee

WHo is CHoosing confidence for?

Those that want to new lease on life.

This study isn’t just information, it’s designed to help you build on small changes that create sustainable life changes. 

Those who don't know where to start.

Deciding to decide that you’re worth the investment is half the battle. This study is set up to help you understand the process and how application works.

Those who need to break the cycle of despair.

Life has burdens that seem unbearable. If you look in the mirror and can’t smile at who is looking back at you you need to choose confidence. This study is to help build you up, even if your at rock bottom. 

Those who feel empty inside.

When you have a low self esteem and no directional purpose you’ll seek to fill your heart with all the wrong things. The Lord has filling for you. Choosing Confidence helps you discover your purpose and know desire with a full heart.

Those who tried everything else.

I know the fear of failing again, thats why this system is focused on making small changes that build and turn into godly habits. Failure has lead you here where you create lasting changes. 

Those who have minimal time.

This product is designed to be self paced. You can work through as 10 minute intervals or go deep diving when you have spare moments. 

About Your Bible Study Mentor:

Arabah Joy is a wife, mom of four, and life-long missionary. Drawing on her years of ministry experience, AJ uses a unique mix of story, coaching, and community to bring spiritual truths to life. She especially enjoys discovering practical ways to apply (implement!) God’s word. AJ believes this online Bible study Intensive is a way to be iron-sharpening-iron friends to one another and can’t wait to see how the Lord uses it in YOUR life!

Frequently ASked Questions

How does this work?

It’s simple! As soon as you register, you’ll receive the study materials straight to your inbox.  

How do I know it’s for me?

If you struggle with insecurity OR if you want to be a guide for others in overcoming it, this is for you! If you believe God’s word is powerful, relevant, and can equip you for growing in confidence, you are in the right place. 

Does my location matter?

Nope! We have women from all over the globe join in our studies. As long as you can get online (for email and YouTube video access), you’re good to go!

Does it matter if I’m new to Bible study?

No! We will do an entire training on our PROSPER Bible study method and will use this method throughout the course. Everyone will be starting from ground zero 🙂 Remember, your goal is to connect with God and experience CHANGE… not perfectly complete a study; so, go at your own pace and hold the reigns loosely!

Will this class be available at a later date?

The study materials are available on-demand right here. Although we have done LIVE classes in the past, we do not plan on offering another LIVE version of this particular class in the future. Your best option is to do this self-paced study!

What all do I get with my purchase?

This study bundle includes our mini- training on the PROSPER Bible Study Method (includes one 18 page workbook with instructions, printables, and 5 instructional videos) AND the Choosing Confidence Bible Study Kit (which includes one 36 page study guide with instructions, printables, Scripture readings, and study notes, and 4 weekly wrap up videos with Listening Guides.) In all, you’ll get 9 videos and two Bible study workbooks.

When will I receive this class in the mail?

All class materials are digital in nature, meaning you will have online access. You will NOT receive any class materials via snail mail.

What’s stopping you from looking forward to each day with anticipation? Imagine a world where your rock bottom is turn into a trampoline ready to catapult you into your purpose! Let’s make this happen together!

There is a divine way back up designed just for you. Are you ready?