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WHY DEMOLITION IS ESSENTIAL TO BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE

When it comes to death and marriage they have a lot in common.

Of course, God didn’t design marriage to lead to death. Even so, the Christian culture has racked up a divorce rate that matches the secular world.

But where did divorce really start? 

In the days of old, divorce was incredibly taboo. Even the royals that the western culture has grown to love so much in recent years had laws in place saying divorce wasn’t an option. In fact, there was a big todo about a king marrying a divorcee forcing him to give up his crown.

So why is divorce so main stream now?

Why is it, when relationships are broken people simply throw them away. I can tell you without a single doubt, that’s not God’s design. Divorce is man’s doing. If God had his way, as in controlling everyone and not allowing us to make our own bad decisions, divorce wouldn’t happen.

 

ORIGINAL DESIGN FOR MARRIAGE

When the Lord originally created man and acknowledged on His own accord that it was not good, he created woman.

Both the man and woman have a role and when done right, think a proper tango or waltz if you’re super fancy, the marriage design is perfection, it’s the two flawed humans doing the dance that are the issue.

What’s grievous is the massive amount of DESTRUCTION two individuals can heap upon each other in a marriage. It’s equally astounding how high the walls can be built.

For the love of all that’s chocolate, a husband and wife can live together and raise children for 30 years and still get a divorce when it’s all said and done.

Why, because they never learned to dance together and ended up building walls that would pale The Great Wall of China.

Essentially, the two walk through marriage numb to each other. Enduring the silence and consistently placing one brick of hurt here and another there until the children are grown they realize they dont even know who their spouse is.

There’s a Tulip festival here in the Pacific Northwest that folsk rave about. It’s truly a wonder to see. Someone asked the lady of one field how she got all those tuplips like that. She answered with “One at a time”.

You see whether it be the beauty of tulips or the tragety of a brick wall. You’ll build your marriage one tulip or brick at a time. Which one will it be?

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BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE WITH BRICKS

I use to wonder what on earth a couple that’s been together for 30 years would divorce over. I mean my husband and I went through Hell and back I. Just the first few years of our marriage I thought what on earth else could’ve happen after all that time.

Truth be told. I was always a bit hesitant to ask. But, the end result was the wall they had built. The wife loses her life in the children, the husband loses his life I. His job. They never connect and after 30 years they end up hardened strangers.

Are you on that path right now. Are the fights unbearable? Yelling and screaming or maybe just silent treatment. You know isolation. is considered torment.

Are you losing your life in your children or working outside of the house instead of losing your life in your husband.

Is your husband working so much you hardly see him and when he is home its all surface because your conversation can’t withstand anything deeper than appointment schedules and grocery lists for dinner.

You need some hardcore demolition.

 

BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE WITH TULIPS

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