about me

Jamee is a lover of Jesus, wife and mama of many. Raising kids, seeking adventure {preferably outdoors} and handling obstacles {not always gracefully} as they come drives her forward even in the darkest hour. She breaks the mold and creates her own paths in marriage, mommyhood, relationships, and politics. Life experience is the best hands on learning. Keep reading for a behind the scenes look into the real-life messes, madness, anxiety, stress, dirty laundry and how to cope while Cultivating Life with Courage!

“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.” -Mark Twain

hi, i’m jamee!

 You’re tired and doubtful more than you’d like to admit. Your confidence needs a boost to get you through those hard days. The days feel way too long as you impatiently wait for bedtime each day.

To top it off, the amount of motherhood shaming these days makes you scared to ask for help. And, as much as you love your hubby, he simply can’t grasp the depth of womenhood that is your life right now.

I totally get it, the road seems lonely but you are not alone.

Here’s the thing. I’m no expert in anything but I have survived 100% of everything life has thrown at me. I’mma woman who’s a stay-at-home wife and mommy of 7 children. I struggle with my weight, and self acceptance. Being a wife has stretched me beyond my wildest imagination, and homeschooling 5 boys while learning as we go gives me anxiety.

I’ve got deep traditional Christian beliefs actively struggling against living a modern Christian lifestyle.

Pretty sure I’m allergic to schedules and routine seeing as I can’t keep one longer than three days my entire life.

Good news is I’ve figured out how to get over that allergy and create life changing habits I can share with you.

With 7 children, just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, what works for one doesn’t work for the other.

Murphy has some explaining to do if yo ask me. 🤔

Meanwhile, marriage has kicked my rear all through the sandy beaches. The kinda trip that leaves sand in places you didn’t know sand could get into. And later, after three wash cycles, sand is still showing up.

Just to be clear, those aren’t tropical, white-sand-beaches, with warm sun kissed rays we’re talking here. These are the cold pacific-coast-ranges with questionable sand and hypothermia tempered water.

Oh, for the love of all things Ben and Jerry.

I’ve been in your shoes to say the least. 

I know you feel like the failure has gotten to be so heavy. You want to wake up and feel alive again. But you don’t have the energy, depression and anxiety are your best friends and the #wifeymomlife is waay harder than you expected.

You want to love deeply like you’ve never been hurt before.

You want laugh so hard your belly hurts and your tears aren’t from desperate exhaustion.

Stick around and we’ll get you living again. You will learn to Cultivate Live with Courage and create a life you can smile about. 😍

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fun facts about jamee

Thanks to my husband, I use the word children because when I share that I have 7 fascinating and energetic “kids”. In my head I hear 7 fascinating and energetic baby goats. Kid is the technical term for a baby goat, try saying that with a straight face from now on. You’re welcome 🙂


E xtremely ticklish is an understatement. My super power is being able to hold a poker face just long enough for people to get disappointed and stop trying. Works almost every time. Except for those rare persistent types who won’t stop. They get to witness my breakdown into a pile of tickle mania. Please, do me a favor and keep this one just between us.

In 9 years my husband and I have seen 500 movies. Almost 400 of those were in theater. Date Nights are kind of a “thing” you could say. #DateYourSpouse


Saying corny stuff is my favorite, like, “Can you turn your window up, the wind is making my head bobble or Please don’t look at me in that tone of face it hurts my eyes. ” Yea, I need help!


O utspoken NOT outgoing. I’ll happily engage in a debate about how smelly feet cause headaches or why Donald Trump is a good president. On the other hand, I can walk into a room filled with 500 people and walk out hours later without meeting a single person.


Raising children is the career I’ve always dreamed of! I’m mommy by day and… wait, I’m also mommy by night. Well, that didn’t work how my head imagined it.


what i can help you with

Bible Study

In order to know who God is and what He desires, bible study must be a priority. Find the best tools and resources to get you closer to God and find deep wisdom and understanding in Him.


Jesus died to reconcile. If his death can redeem all things divorce doesn’t have be the answer. My marriage has survived tragedy and damage. I know the struggle is real.


With a family of 9 raising 7 children I offer you practical tips and tricks to navigating raising a family in a modern world. Babies, toddlers and teenagers. Oh, my!

The Body of Christ

Do not forsake or underestimate the power of having other born-again believers as support in your life. Never forsake compassion and the power of God to change people!


Effective prayer isn’t based on a relief from circumstance but intimacy with God. Find what true prayer means and how to wield the power of prayer between you and the Lord.

Ambassador for Christ

Ministering to your children or maybe you have a blog ministry. The way you live and apply God’s Word is essential to a proper representation of the King of Kings.

Scripture, study, encouragement

A ll scripture used is from the King James version of the Bible unless otherwise stated. In posts, you’ll notice I don’t always use the entire bible address to verses used. This is a technique I use on purpose.

First, because in the days of old they didn’t have verse addresses they simply passed on the wisdom of God’s word by word of mouth. The only reason verse addresses were introduced was to make it more organized and information more easily accessible.

Secondly, it encourages you to go search a bit to find what you are looking for. Jesus writes in Matthew 5 “Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.” If you are truly seeking and hunger for the truth, you will find it if you seek it. That is a promise from God. Jeremiah 29

I want to encourage motivated thinking. No one can really afford to allow others to think for them. Question everything including everything I say. Line it up with the Word of God. That is the standard by which all things should be assessed as truth or not.

Lastly, have fun! Reading the word and searching the heart of the Lord is so fulfilling and uplifting no matter what situation you may be in currently. His word brings light to the darkest of corners. I want you to seek His face for yourself above all else. His wisdom is available if you would accept it.

John 1:1-5

1In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

2The same was in the beginning with God.

3All things were made by him, and without him was not any thing made that was made.

4In him was life; and the life was the light of men.

5And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.


Proverbs 1:20-23

20Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets:

21She crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying,

22How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?

23Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you

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